Is he actually into you as much as you think he is?
is he really that into you?
Another quick and easy quiz, this time based on the fundamental aspects of body language. Again, these are universal feelings that are experienced by every person anywhere on Earth who is attracted to another person. Imagine that you've been at a friend's place where you've met a guy. You spent the evening flirting and talking to him and you feel that the night has gone successfully but you just aren't sure if he's that into you.
before you learn about the loveworks plan, find out first if he's into you
Q1: What was his stance like?
a. Standing or sitting with legs apart.
b. Standing or sitting with legs crossed.
c. Standing or sitting with foot resting on an object (that wasn't you).
d. Standing or sitting with shoes off.
Q2: How about his mouth?
a. Smiling widely, teeth showing.
b. Pursed lips.
c. Polite smiles on and off.
d. Steady and genuine smiles not always directed at you.
Q3: How was his eye contact?
a. Lingering eye contact.
b. Fleeting eye contact.
c. Steady eye contact with an “in-control” look.
d. Steady eye contact but not just with you.
Q4: Was he exhibiting any of the following body movements?
a. Running fingers through hair.
b. Foot tapping or finger drumming.
c. Checking his mobile phone often.
d. None of the above.
Q5: How was his interaction with you?
a. Mirroring your body language and moving in towards you, trying to get closer.
b. Leaning or turning away from you.
c. Body facing towards you but not trying to get any closer.
d. Body leaning back against another object, like a wall or table.
Q6: How was his tone of voice?
a. Raising and lowering the tone and speed of his voice to match yours.
b. Monotone voice with few to no raising of the voice.
c. Even and steady tone of voice with excited inflections when necessary.
d. Tone all over the place. High and low tones when necessary.
Q7: How was his interaction with other objects while talking to you?
a. No interaction with any other objects apart from his own hair and clothes.
b. Constant fiddling with other objects. For example; fiddling with napkins, bottles, labels, etc.
c. Occasionally picking up other objects and fiddling with them but mostly having arms tucked away.
d. Randomly playing or fiddling with other objects in a careless way, usually for a purpose, e.g. to pour another drink or to eat.
Q8: How was his demeanour in relation to the rest of the people/room?
a. No recognition of anything or anybody else in the room. Focussing all his attention on you.
b. Constant looking around the room at other things and people. Attempts at talking to other people.
c. Most attention focused on you but occasionally interrupting your conversation to talk to other people/respond to them talking to him.
d. Complete attention focussed on you when you're talking but when you and he aren't engaged in conversation, engaging in conversation with many other people. Attempts at bringing others into the conversation.
Q9: How was he controlling his space in the room?
a. Manoeuvring himself between you and another person (man or woman) to create a more intimate space. Also moving into a sheltering and protective position (in relation to you) to block other rivals. He also shares his space with you.
b. Keeping his space and not letting you into it but encouraging others to enter your space.
c. Keeping a normal and even space between you both, but letting others enter as well.
d. Leaving his space wide open to everybody, including you.
Q10: How were his eyebrow movements?
a. Hardly ever raising his eyebrows.
b. Crinkling and raising his brow often.
c. Raising eyebrows when necessary to the conversation.
d. Constant brow movements throughout the conversation in relation to the conversation.
Results
Mostly A's: Positive Body Language
Congratulations! He's into you in a BIG way!
His intense eye gazing and complete attention means only one thing, he likes you! And he isn't afraid to let it show.
Take Action!: If you like him back, then give him a call! You two could have started something beautiful, so go for it! He will definitely respond well.
Mostly B's: Negative Body Language
Unfortunetly he just isn't into it. Perhaps he's gay or taken, because the way he was acting was revealing all the negative body language signs.
Take Action!: Or rather don't. Trying to make something happen with this guy is futile and will ultimately hurt you as I can tell you now, he does not like you. So just forget about him and find someone who actually deserves you.
Mostly C's: Neutral Body Language
His body language is very neutral. You could see him acting this way towards his boss, grandmother or best buddy.
He was polite and following the social code. He was keeping your eye contact as he would anyone else, so he could like you but you just don't know, he may have just been being polite or he liked you as a friend.
Take Action: This isn't necessarily a lost case. If you like him then give it a go and see what happens but really, remember he is neutral towards you which doesn't make a good start. But you could always settle for being friends. Why not?
Mostly D's: Relaxed Body Language
His body language was very relaxed and comfortable.
He's extremely comfortable with you or is it just with everybody?
He was polite and engaged in conversation with you but this does not particularly make you special.
Being comfortable with somebody that you've only just met usually means that you feel a similarity with them and feel you can let loose and get on together well, but it can also mean that you care so little that you don't particularly care how you act and what you say and how you come across.
Take Action: Even if you don't have a spark, you two obviously had a bit of a connection and a good time so why not try and just be friends and hang out?
